BDSM & Candaules

Since there are so many different views on “the lifestyle”… I thought I would share with you how I feel about it so that we are all on the same page.

First, I come from the school of thought that the submissive is the one who is truly in power and has the most control.  No matter how hard a dominant may push his or her submissive, I believe that the slave should always retain the right to ultimately decide when enough is enough.  My slaves’ submission to me is a gift and I will always respect their physical and emotional limitations.

Second, although the term BDSM includes the term sadism, I am by no means a sadistic person by nature.  I am quite the opposite of that and tend to want to give my slaves as much pleasure as I can in every possible way.  My slaves are the ones who are the masochists.  They enjoy the pain and the humiliation.  My girls volunteer for their abuse because it makes them feel good and gives them a chance to enjoy a world separate from the regular work day world.  They do this because they trust me to respect their limitations.

Finally, our enjoyment of this fetish is about pleasure and escaping the regular world.  We don’t do anything that leaves permanent marks or long term scars.  Even though I love knives and swords, I do not do any “edge play” with knives sharp enough to cut skin.  I have personally beaten my slave until her ass was bright red and purple with bruises for days.  Each day as the bruise faded she showed it to me and expressed how proud she was to be wearing my mark but even that was temporary and is gone now.

*disclaimer – although the author of this blog claims status as Master, his title exists only because of the dedication and devotion of his slaves.  Master Candaules has not graduated any courses or classes dedicated to BDSM or the swinging lifestyle in general.  Any advice or tutorials offered here are for entertainment purposes only.  The reader accepts full responsibility for any use or implementation of any information available on this website or any sites linked to by this site.  All knowledge and entries shared by the author of this blog were learned through his own personal exploration of BDSM and the swinging lifestyle.  Master Candaules’ only credit necessary is the happiness and gratitude that his wife and slaves give him.

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